Chains, whips, leather masks, girls screaming inside the euphoric agony that's BDSM… Boy can we use a podcast for you personally guys today!
Today, we interview Clarisse Thorn, a best selling author on Amazon and close personal friend of mine from my amateur get artist adventures in good ol’ Chicago, Illinois. We met while JT Tran was giving his speech to varsity students at University of Chicago in Hyde Park, so when she was writing her book on get artists, she chased us around in great amounts, curious from the lifestyle and craft. Following your whole chase and adventure concluded, Clarisse remained a close personal friend of mine.
I’m glad to have her on our podcast today, once we speak about a subject of your forbidden, sexual, and hardcore fantasy escapade - S&M, or sadism and masochism.
Author, writer, speaker, S&M pro-sex feminist, Clarisse Thorn is recognized as one of many top experts in BDSM, S&M, and pro-sex feminism. She's got been featured on Post Masculine Radio, Psychology Today, and it has several excellent books on Amazon, including a few most popular like, “Confessions of your Pickup Artist Chaser,” “The S&M Feminist,” and her newly released title, “Switch Seductress.”
Now I’ve for ages been into handcuffs, ropes, and tying my girls for the bed, but slapping, chains, and whips are completely a new comer to me. Believe it or not, lots of women actually Take pleasure in the act of playing the submissive. We’ve heard about fantasies of role-playing, the dirty nurse, the nasty librarian, and also the rape fantasy. Want to learn how to have all these fantasies in the completely acceptable manner and not get added too jail, arrested, or perhaps be known as a creep? We’ve got the podcast to suit your needs! Be aware that acts of sadism, fantasy role play in whatever situation chosen just isn't considered sexual assault or sexual harassment as long as there's consent between both parties (or everyone concerned, if you’re into that!)
Whips, bondage gear, ropes, and handcuffs sprawl throughout your dungeon of sexual intent, along with your girlfriend is waiting… Where do you turn first? Slap her around silly? Screw her brains out while whipping her until her back turns red? Throw her around the bed and choke her? What’s Clarisse Thorn must say concerning this? NONE OF THE ABOVE is appropriate to accomplish first. On this episode of the Alpha Lifestyle podcast, Clarisse Thorn discusses the start of S&M, how to get started with your personal S&M fantasies, and even the way to have a conversation regarding the subject in the first place without losing it your partner. She even discusses her back-story of methods she first think it is dirty, terrible, and absolutely wrong and the way later on Clarisse Thorn were built with a change of heart, and explored everything just how, loving every second than it.
First thing Clarisse says concerning your partner when you want to initiate S&M would be to discuss it. The most important thing to get once this is taking place is consent. Consent may be the important element of the S&M vehicle, and you also can’t just start beating the crap out of your partner without their consent! If you’re not used to the scene and merely would like to learn more about it, Clarisse discusses fetish maps and finding your hidden local dungeons where one can meet other S&M fans and quite possibly look for a date! If you use consent, you may create any sick and twisted fantasy with your spouse(s) and recreate any sort of role play you need, may it be a boss-secretary forbidden relationship, or possibly a rape fantasy - becasue it is even mentioned inside our podcast. As long as you have consent with your mate(s) and communicate well, you’ll be green to go on almost anything everyone agree to do. Just think about it, doing Anything to another person making use of their consent inside a sexual nature… She could play nurse, or she will play librarian, or secretary! The options are endless!
The advantages of S&M aren't only great sex and blowing steam off as a dominant. Clarisse includes a strong stance on improving communications between couples with S&M, and in addition getting closer over a different level than just intimacy. S&M builds a lot of trust and compliance with couples, and is also an excellent way to learn how you can talk to one another. Trusting that your partner will stop when they the safe word, or trusting that they're fine with acting out an illusion builds a deep level or rapport with this person. Better still, it is possible to take the fantasies farther and farther every time, making it even dirtier compared to last one. S&M can surely be described as a way to spice up your love life, rather than just allow it die off with the usual vanilla frozen goodies sex!
Now there’s a huge amount of misconceptions when it comes to S&M, and Clarisse Thorn delves into plenty of these, how S&M is in fact more prevalent than you believe, and how you may get started introducing a little bit more kink into your relationship using a simple visit to the frozen treats shop inside them for hours a conversation. Clarisse found several good ways to enter the conversation of beginning a kinky relationship and putting S&M within their lives slowly, such as a way to get a template on how to use a difficult conversation with someone. She's some absolutely brilliant information for you personally guys, and you’re getting it, absolutely free!
As always, we love to making these podcasts which means you males have great solid information you could depend on. If you wish to speak to Clarisse Thorn directly, go take a look at her Twitter and blog at http://www.clarissethorn.com. Have a look at her awesome books on Amazon like “Confessions of your Pickup Artist Chaser,” “Switch Seductress,” and “The S&M Feminist: Good Clarisse Thorn,” all on Kindle. You can e-mail her at Clarisse.email@example.com so when always, the infamous Ozzie R and Ben J will always be entirely on the “Contact Us” form in the main navigation bar on the top of the page. Send us the questions you have, love, and hate mail, and we’ll make out the print.